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22 THINGS I LEARNED BEFORE TURNING 22

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Heyyyyyy my loves! It feels so weird here.I've been away for the longest time and i apologise. Omg! a lot has happened since i last came on here but that's a conversation for another daylol. I turned 22! And as usual, here are 22 things i learned before turning 22. Enjoy!

MY NYSC CAMP EXPERIENCE.

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Heyyy loves! It’s been a hell of a long time! I hope you guys are doing amazing! So, I want to tell you guys a little about my experience at the nys orientation camp and I'mma jump right into it. I went to the Kubwa orientation camp in FCT, Abuja. I wanted to make a vlog on my YouTube channel for you all to have a visual experience because I had someone whose phone shot videos in 4K and he helped shoot some videos but I didn’t have enough footage and I wanted it to be really detailed so I decided to write.

Forgotten truths

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Hi! What's going on? I hope you are doing amazing! If not, I'm sorry. You'd be fine. I promise. Take my words for it. So, I'm here on my unmade bed after a stressful day. Actually, it has been some stressful past days. Anyways, I'm listening to my playlist at the moment which is not more than five songs and I just decided to share somethings I found while reading and thought might be helpful. Another person that inspired this post is Ope, my classmate who gave me a subtle attack to post on my blog so, enjoy!

COMMUNICATE!!!

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We love to talk about GOT series and fashion trends and what celebrities are up to, as well as new artists and new music. We will talk about future goals and really anything that comes up. We can talk for hours about nothing and days about everything. Yet it always seems like everyone seems to shut the fuck up when it comes down to the most important time to actually TALK. I'm referring to relationships. It seems that when we get frustrated with our bf/gf, we stop talking. We walk away from the person, there’s no exchanged I love yous , no calls, no texts, and no more relationship. In some cases, walking away is the right thing to do, such as in toxic or abusive relationships, but here, I'm referring to an average relationship.

21 THINGS I LEARNED BEFORE TURNING 21!

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Having recently turned 21, I decided to compile a list of 21 pieces of advice, life lessons, and tips that I've learned to acknowledge and accept over the course of my life, and maybe it'll be helpful to you.

UPDATE ON MY LIFE/PLANS FOR MY FINAL YEAR IN SCHOOL.

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So I am in my final year in the University. Yay(I guess). I resumed about a month ago and I am already tired. Boring classes, assignments, presentations, projects and what not. Lord. My third year would probably be the worst time of my life for certain reasons but this school year is already looking good because I have been planning my days more, I’ve been more positive,

HOW TO HANDLE CONFRONTATIONS.

 I’ve definitely been the type of person to avoid confrontation but now, I approach it head on.In my experience when I don’t approach it, it usually ends up hurting me in the long run as i bottle my feelings, which ultimately come out sideways as passive aggressiveness. Of course, confrontation can be uncomfortable at times but it doesn’t have to be scary. In fact, it can even be healthy when done right. I think a large reason people hate confrontation is because it typically ends up worsening the problem. These are what you should do: