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UPDATE ON MY LIFE/PLANS FOR MY FINAL YEAR IN SCHOOL.

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So I am in my final year in the University. Yay(I guess). I resumed about a month ago and I am already tired. Boring classes, assignments, presentations, projects and what not. Lord. My third year would probably be the worst time of my life for certain reasons but this school year is already looking good because I have been planning my days more, I’ve been more positive,

HOW TO HANDLE CONFRONTATIONS.

 I’ve definitely been the type of person to avoid confrontation but now, I approach it head on.In my experience when I don’t approach it, it usually ends up hurting me in the long run as i bottle my feelings, which ultimately come out sideways as passive aggressiveness. Of course, confrontation can be uncomfortable at times but it doesn’t have to be scary. In fact, it can even be healthy when done right. I think a large reason people hate confrontation is because it typically ends up worsening the problem. These are what you should do:

HOW I ACHIEVED A CLEARER SKIN (WITH PICTURES).

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Hey lovelies! This post is long due so I'm just going straight to the point on how I achieved a clearer skin. It was very difficult trying to get my skin back. I tried everything. At a point, I was like everyone should just accept me like this,we would all be fine but it was crazy always answering the question" OMG what happened to your face" because I didn't even know the answer.

DO NOT LET THEM DEFINE YOU!

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Heyyyyy my people!!! How are you guys doing? I hope you feel Amazing! If not,it will be alright las las. I’m on the toilet seat writing this. Too much information abi?lol. I’m feeling like I need to motivate myself and others right now and that’s why I decided to share this with you all. Before I

THE REALITIES OF BEING AN ENTREPRENEUR.

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 "An entrepreneur is somebody that takes risk to start a business by sacrificing their salary to make money on their own and create jobs."Although they may be confident in their decision to forge his or her own, uncharted path to successful business ownership, prosperity is not guaranteed. The risks, roadblocks, and psychological challenges involved are enough to deter even the most confident entrepreneur with the best product offering.

AT A POINT, YOU ARE MISERABLE NOT PETTY.

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Petty. It seems to be a word that dominates every social media platform on the Internet.Especially Snapchat. Oh yes, Snapchat. But here's the thing, being petty isn't cute. It isn't funny, it isn't unique or powerful. It's immature and rude and frankly, annoying.And you wanna know what makes all of this even worse? We don’t only act petty, we glorify it. We publicize stupid arguments with our friends to gain sympathy and in turn, taking a simple misunderstanding and blowing it way out of proportion. And when we do this, we get congratulated. People think you’re so funny and so clever, when really you’re just petty. And now you’re sitting there like, yasss, I am petty, is that a problem? Because for some reason our society is so messed up that it’s talked you up to think that the way you’re handling your problems is brilliant.

HOPE?

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The definition of a Strong Woman, to me, is a woman who can make the right moves, even when she is afraid and doubtful. She may not have all the answers, but she trusts in herself and the natural cycle of life. I know this is easier said than done. The reason why it is hard for us to let go is because we have been taught that hope is a good emotion and motivator to live with. I’m here to tell you that hope is a destroyer of your true self and purpose. Women use hope to do things that are not for their greatest good. We stay in abusive relationships because we hope one day they will change. We hope we will get the job we want, the house, the relationship… the list goes on but I'd stop here.